Yesterday was Connor's weekly Methrotrxate Day and today we headed down to C-Springs to the Children's Infusion Center for Cancer and Blood Disorders for his monthly Port Flush and Blood work.
Connor did really well with all of the above but for some strange reason this morning when I was in the kitchen cleaning up and he was a few feet away taking his medications he stopped and looked at me. I asked him what was wrong and he said he so dislikes taking all those medications. I said I feel for him and it is no fun at all. Then he kind of shocked me by replying after a couple of minutes that he has a lot to be grateful for when it comes to having JDM. He said if it wasn't for him being so sick he would never have met Grant and Evan and how much he loves them. He said he would not know Dr. Curran and Stan the Man ;) or Dr. Soep. Of course he said he loved the Disney Cruise which would not have happened this way if it wasn't for JDM.
I for one LOVED to see his brain work this way as we always talk about looking for the bright side but to all he has been through it is not always a natural reaction to things. So for him to mention all of this was truly a gift and a great reminder for myself.
So this post if for my oldest son who has been so brave in the past and had to face so many challenges but who's mind is once again looking for the brighter side. He truly is an old soul in many ways and I love seeing some wisdom come through!
Hugs,
R A C A
Connor did really well with all of the above but for some strange reason this morning when I was in the kitchen cleaning up and he was a few feet away taking his medications he stopped and looked at me. I asked him what was wrong and he said he so dislikes taking all those medications. I said I feel for him and it is no fun at all. Then he kind of shocked me by replying after a couple of minutes that he has a lot to be grateful for when it comes to having JDM. He said if it wasn't for him being so sick he would never have met Grant and Evan and how much he loves them. He said he would not know Dr. Curran and Stan the Man ;) or Dr. Soep. Of course he said he loved the Disney Cruise which would not have happened this way if it wasn't for JDM.
I for one LOVED to see his brain work this way as we always talk about looking for the bright side but to all he has been through it is not always a natural reaction to things. So for him to mention all of this was truly a gift and a great reminder for myself.
So this post if for my oldest son who has been so brave in the past and had to face so many challenges but who's mind is once again looking for the brighter side. He truly is an old soul in many ways and I love seeing some wisdom come through!
Hugs,
R A C A
Aww! This is so sweet, and so encouraging! We often say the same things around here. Always trying to find the silver lining....
ReplyDeleteAnke,
ReplyDeleteYou have a special young man there!!! It is wonderful to hear that he sees the bright side to a disease that has done so much to him. He truly is an amazing young man!!!
I love the huge smile in his picture as well :)
Hugs to you all,
Susan and Dominic
Anke, he is a wonderful boy! Actually, they both are! You and Ron are doing a wonderful job raising them and it really shows. You have so much to be proud of. :)
ReplyDeleteLove you!